Sunday, January 2, 2011
Matthew 3:13-17
John the Baptist was baptizing in the Jordan River when Jesus showed up and asked John to baptize him. John objected and said: “I should be baptized by you!” A friendly argument ensued when Jesus said, “just allow it for now.” Don’t forget, John and Jesus were related and were about the same age. They grew up together and played together, so they were familiar with each other.
“But when Jesus came up from the water, the heavens were opened for him and John saw the Spirit of God descending like a dove and coming upon Jesus. And a voice came from the heavens saying, ‘This is my beloved son with whom I am well pleased.’”
I can personally relate to this affirmation of Jesus by his Father. When I was 12 years old, I was in my cellar quietly painting our furnace and listening to the Red Sox. (The furnace was supposed to be painted two shades of green and I painted it gray and black. That’s when I found out I was color blind.). From the cellar window I could see my father’s legs along with our neighbor’s, Val. They were sitting on the front steps of our porch. I turned off the Red Sox game to better eavesdrop on their conversation. They were planning a fishing trip to a local lake. The neighbor asked my dad, “Are you planning to bring your oldest son?” “Yes,” he said. “Are you?” “No,” Val answered, “My son doesn’t like fishing and he can be a pain in the neck. Maybe we could just go the two of us?” “No,” replied my father “my son is coming. He loves fishing and he’s helpful around the house and he has good grades in school.” (I loved being with my dad more than I loved fishing, but my dad didn’t know that.) My father was proud of me and he was bragging about me. I never forgot it. His words to our neighbor now sound like “this is my beloved son with whom I am well pleased.”
We all have moments in our lives when we’re not sure of ourselves. At one time or another we all need to be reassured. I hope that you’ve experienced moments when someone in your life cycle affirmed you like, “I couldn’t ask for a better daughter.” “I couldn’t ask for a better son!” “This is my beloved son with whom I am well pleased.” This statement sounds very much like:
“I am so proud of you!” when you graduated from high school or college.
“I’m so happy for you” when you got married.
“Wow a new grandchild. Thanks so much.”
“You’re the best friend I could ever have.”
“What would I do without you?”
“Thank God you’re around.”
My son and my daughter are adults now and on their own. But every conversation we have, in person or on the phone, is always punctuated with, “Bye Dad, I love you!” I never take it for granted and I’d be very disappointed if I didn’t hear it!
When God can’t be everywhere at once, He created mothers and fathers and best friends and siblings and children and grandchildren and special aunts and uncles who are not even related to us. All these special people can remind us of how special we are to someone.
Much of our work in healthcare is focused on helping patients through serious illnesses. That’s called “curing.” But our personal attention to patients can make them feel special and worthy. That’s called “healing.” Curing is not always guaranteed, but healing is always in our power and somehow patients instinctively feel that.
The next time someone affirms you, please pay attention to the comment, accept it, appreciate it, and especially don’t forget it. I never forgot when my dad included me in his fishing plans (that was 63 years ago). I’ll bet that Jesus never forgot “this is my beloved son with whom I am well pleased.”
Kenn Rancourt
Pastoral Care


