Sunday, May 29, 2011
Acts of the Apostles 8: 5-8, 14-16 1 Peter 3: 15-18 John 14: 15-21
In the gospel of John, Jesus speaks of his intimate relationship with his father and with us. “On that day you will realize that I am in my Father and you are in me and I in you. Whoever has my commandments and observes them is the one who loves me. And whoever loves me will be loved my Father, and I will love him and reveal myself to him.”
As I think of my own relationship with my father, I reflect on how it has grown through the years. As a child, there were the rules to follow which I did out of respect and obedience. Then I went through a period in which I tested those rules and I had to accept the consequences of my choices. As I grew into adulthood, my relationship with my dad grew as well. I t was no longer one in which I was simply following rules. I began to get to know my dad as a real person. In knowing him, I discovered his gentleness and compassion. I realized that our bond was based on love. When I began to raise my own family, I began to understand my father even more. He and I have spent a great deal of time together. As we have revealed more of ourselves to each other, our relationship has matured into an adult relationship. He knows me and I know him
In the gospel reading for this week, it speaks of this type of relationship between Jesus and his Father and Jesus and us. When we were young, we learned to follow the commandments (rules). If we kept the commandments, observed them, we showed our love for God. Hopefully as we matured in our faith through prayer, reading, meditation, Mass, and in living in community with each other, we have moved beyond just following the rules and we have developed an intimate relationship with God (Father, Jesus, and Holy Spirit). As we get to know more about Jesus, who lived among us, we get a glimpse of the father. We get to know Him as well. It’s very personal. But as in any relationship, we may fail God through our sinfulness. We may feel distant from Him. This will require asking for forgiveness. Building human relationships is not easy and requires a lot of hard work. And so it is with God. Relationship building takes time and devotion.
Jesus says, “I will not leave you orphan; I will come to you.” He does come to us through his Holy Spirit. The Holy Spirit is probably the least understood person of the Trinity. The Holy Spirit is present in grace-filled moments. He comes to us through the many people we meet in our lives. We are guided along by those encounters. When we rise above tragedies and difficult times, it because the Holy Spirit is with us to lift us up.
As I continue to work here at d’Youville, I am in awe at the strength and courage of some people who face adversity time and again and their faith sustains them. They don’t lose courage or hope. When I ask them to talk to me about that, they say everyone faces challenges. It’s what we do with those challenges that define us. God is there to help us if we are willing to open up and be in relationship with Him and trust in Him. Let us all take some time and reflect on our personal relationship with God. Is it a relationship that growing and deepening?
Dan Doyon
Pastoral Care


