Sunday, May 20, 2012
Readings for your Reference: Psalm: 27:7-9, Acts: 1:15-20 1st letter John 4:11-16, Gospel John 17:11-19
A Reflection for Families:
“I will not leave you orphans, says the Lord. I will come back and your hearts will rejoice.” John 14-18
This week, I would like to dedicate the reflection to the families represented in our large family of St. Mary’s Health Care system: the families of staff, patients, residents and visitors. Today as I write this we are celebrating Mother’s day. On June 1st we will enjoy Children’s day. Fathers will be honored on June 17th and Grandparents on September 9th.
Families are unique; no two are alike. Our scripture readings for pondering, speak to the familial challenges of the infant church following the death of Jesus. The Psalmist lifts up a prayer, the like of which can be heard by many a family member in time of distress, “O Lord hear my voice, for I have called to you; of you my heart has spoken; hide not your face from me.”
In the lines from Acts: 115-20, Peter, finds himself with a heavy responsibility on his shoulders. He stands among the other disciples calling upon them to help with the job of choosing someone to fill the void left by Judas who has transitioned to his home with God, after much mental and spiritual pain. We in our own families find a void when a loved one leaves the family through illness, death or choice. Hopefully, those who remain behind will find the grace to pull together through prayer, love, the support of friends, and staying in touch with reminders of God’s care for us in the scriptures.
“Beloved, if God so loved us, we also must love one another. Whoever acknowledges and turns to God, God will remain in that person and they in God. Therefore, we have come to know and believe in the love and care God has for us. “1 John 4:11-16”.
Our Gospel reading for today is full of the evidence of God’s care for our families evident in the thoughts and words of Jesus. As Jesus prepares to return to his Father, he is in the midst of a long prayer for his followers. That would include us… “Holy Father, keep them in your name, that you have given me so that they may be one as we are one”…As you sent me into the world, so I send them into the world. Consecrate them in truth. Keep them from evil…”
It is a joy and a blessing to observe the men and the women who serve our patients and residents here in our large family at St. Mary’s Health System. They are grandparents, fathers, mothers, sons and daughters who come to serve the sick, the dying, the lonely and the frightened children of God. Often they carry concerns about the wellness, safety and security of their own family members. Their devotion to those in their care is obvious and if they are distracted the tenderness and skill with which they work is not diminished. This is not easy. I personally can recall times of family challenges when it was difficult to have both legs in the halls of St. Mary’s and not want to leave to tend to the situation of a loved one.
We are blessed in the leadership we have in our organization as well. These leaders are sensitive and caring and go the extra mile with their people to assist in whatever way they can to ease the difficulties a staff member may be going through.
We have an Awesome God who rewards us for our efforts. Yes, the answers are not always immediate or in the package we would like but, there will be an answer… Go Well and Gently on to Celebrate Family!
Blessings,
Elizabeth Lowe
Chaplain BC


